Monday, December 14, 2009

So many things are happening all at once!

First of all, Evan has officially graduated to the big tub. I've had
him in the baby tub inside the big tub for a few months. However he
doesn't want to lay down in his tub anymore. He wants to sit up and
pull up on the front of his tub and the side of the big tub. He also
wants out when I start to dry him off and tries to stand up.
So we decided it was time to make a change. I asked my friends, Ben
and Dorothy what they did with their son. They told me they just used
the regular tub. Over the weekend I transitioned him. I filled the tub
with a few inches of water and threw in his bath toys and I used a cup
to wash his hair. He did just fine. He sat up well and his favorite
toy was the cup. He even threw a fit when I took it to rinse his hair.
So the next night we did the same thing again and I brought in an
extra cup. It takes a little maneuvering and a bit of caution but he's
doing well in the big tub. He likes to grab the washcloth and splash
really big in the water.

Second, we have started using a modified version of the cry it out
method. Evan did really well for about a week. He went down easy and
slept through the night no problem. But about the middle of last week
he started waking up in the middle of the night and we'd hold him and
he'd fall asleep only to wake up a minute or two later in our arms. Or
he'd actually stay asleep and we'd go to put him in bed and he'd wake
up as soon as we laid him down. We figured he was teething so we gave
him ambysol or tylenol when he was really bad. But it didn't seem to
do much. A few nights the only way we could get him to sleep for a few
hours was to let him cuddle up with us in bed. And this was only after
carefully and slowly laying him down. So we decided that the way we
were doing things wasn't working very well and that he needed to learn
to consol himself a bit. So we tried the cry it out like one or two
nights but Evan just screamed and was really upset. So then I tried
standing over him, rubbing his chest but he just fussed. So the next
night I sat in front of his crib shhing him so he'd know he wasn't
alone. He cried for an hour, I was about to pick him up but I started
jiggling his butt and he settled down and went to sleep. So the next
day for a nap I started buy laying him down and jiggling his butt. He
was asleep within five minutes. More about this in a minute.

So the third event...Last night our wonderful, beautiful, little son's
first tooth broke through! It so cute and barely just there but you
can feel the sharp edge. If you push his lip down with one finger and
his tongue out of the way with the other, you can just see the top of
a perfect little white tooth.

The last amazing event, but not topping the last, Evan just put
himself to sleep! I tried our new jiggle method but he rolled over on
his stomach and while I was trying to pat his back he kept looking
over at me and wanting to play. So I rolled him onto his back. But he
was only interested in playing in his bed. So I tried to hide over by
the door to see how he would react. He didn't get upset he just kept
pushing his little feet through the side of the crib and playing with
his blanket, talking to himself. Then he rolled over and spied me in
the corner. So I got up and put his blanket back over him and said
"Night, Night" and walked out and shut the door. I braced myself for
screaming but it didn't come. He played a bit and within five minutes
I didn't hear anymore noises. I opened the door and crept in and he
was laying on his stomach sleeping! Painless Success!

Well that was a little, okay a lot, longer than I thought but it's all
important and I haven't updated in awhile. And I'm sure you all loved
every minute of it.
Seriously, thank you for your interest.

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